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Welcome to St. Bernard's!
What to expect at St. Bernard’s:
Located in the hills of South Tulsa on 101st street, St. Bernard’s offers faith formation for all ages. It is east of Jenks Middle School and west of Yale. Families basically are either in the Jenks or Union School Districts, however there are parishioners from many areas of Tulsa County including Bixby, Broken Arrow, and Glenpool. Many parishioners send their kids to private schools including Bishop Kelley High School. We also have several parishioners that are involved in homeschooling. The organizations at St. Bernard’s promote learning, service, spirituality and ministry for all ages. The beautiful Good Shepherd Chapel provides quiet Adoration with Jesus during the week. The Marian Chapel, at the back of the church, also houses a columbarium.
Accessibility:
The church offices are located on the “E” level or the 1st floor. Handicap parking is on the West Side of the church and provides one level access to the main church. Elevators can be accessed from that level to get to the office level, the Good Shepherd Chapel, and other floors of the church. The handicap parking on the south side of the church provides single level access to the church and the Marian Chapel/columbarium and gym.
What to wear:
People attend Mass in casual to business wear clothing.
I have children:
We have a Preschool for children ages 2 up to Kindergarten. A nursery is provided for children 4 and under during the 8:00 am and 11:15 am Masses on Sundays. Space is limited.
Contributions:
St. Bernard's is a tithing parish. Your regular contributions can be made online or dropped in the collection basket at Mass. Special collections are held throughout the year for other Catholic organizations.
Frequently Asked Questions
When can I worship with you?
Our Mass Schedule can be found here:
When is Confession?
Our Confession schedule can be found here:
What should I wear?
We want you to feel comfortable. After all, we are thrilled that you're joining us and want you to be more focused on the service than what you're wearing. In the summertime, it's not uncommon to see people wearing sandals, shorts, and a shirt. Others prefer to still put on their "Sunday best," and that's fine too! However, we do request that shorts be of a conservative length (no “short-shorts”) and that in general, clothing be respectable and conservative.
How do I get to St. Bernard of Clairvaux Catholic Church?
Our parish is located at 4001 E 101st Street, Tulsa, OK 74137.
Where should I park?
We have an extensive parking lot, and additional parking is available next door at Harvest Church, which was acquired by the parish.
Where do my children go?
Children are always welcome at Mass! We also have a nursery available during all four Masses for children ages 4 and under. The nursery is first-come, first-served and will welcome children until capacity is reached.
I’m not Catholic, how do I know when to sit, stand and kneel?
There’s no need to be self-conscious about the postures and responses used during worship. Most visitors just follow the lead of the our parishioners. However, we do have worship aids located in each pew that provide you with the order of the mass, the postures, and the words to each prayer. If you don't see a worship aid in your pew, ask an usher, and they will be happy to bring you one.
I’m not Catholic, is it okay for me to participate in Holy Communion?
Holy Communion, or the Eucharist, is the most intimate expression of our faith. Catholics believe that the host is literally the body of Christ, transformed from bread by the priest presiding over the service. Most evangelicals think of Communion as symbolic, so it makes sense that they are not as strict about having the right relationship to it as Catholics and Orthodox Christians who believe it is a Sacrament and the true presence of Christ. So, if you are not Catholic, we ask that you not receive Holy Communion. However, those not receiving the Body of Christ and Precious blood are invited to come forward with their hands crossed over their chests for a special blessing.
Am I expected to put money in the offering?
If you are visiting with us, we don't expect you to put money in the offering, and you are welcome to just let it pass you by. If you consider our parish your church home, we'd love for you to prayerfully consider giving to our parish on a weekly basis. You can give by check or cash during the service, or you can sign up for online giving here.
I have a hearing problem, is there any special assistance?
Hearing assistance is available at the Welcome Desk next to the front doors.